Sleep-over guests

These tip ideas are courtesy of a co-worker:

If you are having a friend over for a sleep-over for the first time there are important things to consider.

1- Find out what they will or won't eat.  "Anything" is not going to work here, please be specific.  Example here: John will eat beef, but nothing with gravy. So beef stew is off the menu, but roast beef plain may be ok.

2- Check out game and movie ratings.  Because you allow your child who is 10 to watch PG-13 movies does not mean that Suzie's mom will let her. 

3- Allergies.  These are VERY important.  Even the simplest allergy should be discussed.  It may be the middle of winter, but you need to know that Johnny is allergic to ant bites.

4- Bed time routine.  Is there ANYTHING special that you need to know.  Nightmares, talking in their sleep, needs to be asleep by midnight, gets up often to use the restroom, etc.

5- Contact information for the parents. Sounds straight forward, but if you have 3 different numbers make sure you know which is the best to use. 

6-Next day arrangements.  What time will they be there to pick up Jack?  Do you need to take him home?

The main point is don't assume that any other child is like your child or that other parents are like you.  Every child is unique and special.  Sleep-overs are fun, but make sure you have any information that you may possibly need because you may just need it.